hard as it is, I think if it comes time for you to go, you lay your cards on the table right then and there, and you give him the choice -- and make it a final one.
if he chooses to stay, he can plead ignorance and separate himself from you best as he can, and a quick verisatum will clear him right off. and if he chooses to go with you, it'll be of his own free will.
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Date: 2010-06-15 02:54 pm (UTC)hard as it is, I think if it comes time for you to go, you lay your cards on the table right then and there, and you give him the choice -- and make it a final one.
if he chooses to stay, he can plead ignorance and separate himself from you best as he can, and a quick verisatum will clear him right off. and if he chooses to go with you, it'll be of his own free will.